The research focus on mind, self, and society of Indonesian women towards relationship with the existence of dating application. The study applied Symbolic Interactionism Theory.The research employed qualitative approach with phenomenological as the method. There are five informants who is Indonesian women within the age between 25 to 31 years old.There are twomainfindings. First,there are two categories of self-concept which shaped by mind, self, and society.One is conducting themselves according to what the society expected them to do, while the others are behaving according to what they really want to do.Second,theway people use the technology, which represent by dating application in this research,is based on the culture that they hold onto themselvesand dating application only serve as a tool of extension in meeting new people